Sometimes I feel like I really wear the pants in this relationship. Dan makes the money, yes, but I handle everything else – the house, the finances, the kids, the house hunting, the phone calls, and now, the major decisions. But then, this is a guy who didn’t even want to purchase a new pair of glasses without my input. *eyeroll*
I’ve always been a take-charge kind of girl, and I don’t mind stepping up the plate, but sometimes I wish Dan would take the reins and lead the way. Romance novels make me wistful that way… what I wouldn’t give sometimes for a take charge kind of man who is dominating and in control. Dan is used to being cool as cucumber, and letting me handle things and only giving input when I ask for it.
Funnily enough, a lot of our fights revolve around the fact that Dan gets sick and tired of me being so “controlling” and never letting him know what’s going on. It’s time like this I really want to smack him. He sits around and lets me doing everything, and doesn’t even want to be bothered with it unless it’s really necessary, and then he’s going to turn around and bitch when I go ahead and do things? UGH.


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