We had a little “oops” with our bank account right around the time that we signed the papers for the house. Another oops happened right after we moved, thanks to a big fuck up and several transactions put through by uhaul.
Due to these “oops” we made plans to pay our mortgage a week late, even though I hate getting off on the wrong foot like that. See, the “oops” ate up our funds for our car payment, so on the first of the month we were going to do the car payment and property payment instead. I couldn’t not do the car payment (meaning do the mortgage payment and then the car payment a week later), because it’s auto debited from our account, and had already attempted to go through twice, so I knew it would go through a third time.
I wake up today to find that Dan paid our mortgage because the company called. WHAT. THE. FUCK.
The check for the property tax payment is in. Our car payment will be auto debited at any time. And now he set up a payment for our mortgage. We’re about $400 short of paying all three.
And now he turns around and bitches at me for being angry with him. When the shit hits the fan and everything bounces all over the place, he’ll be bitching at me for that, too.
I swear, I can’t stand it. I explain things matter of factly and simply, he agrees to wait on the mortgage payment even though he doesn’t want to, and then he turns around and does it anyway.
Why why why why why why why.


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